“I have this idea that every time we discover that the names we’re being called are somehow keeping us less than free, we need to come up with new names for ourselves, and that the names we give ourselves must no longer reflect a fear of being labeled outsiders, must no longer bind us to a system that would rather see us dead.” ― Kate Bornstein,
I like to think of myself as somewhat of a renaissance butch. I figure its something like being ok with the possible dissonance between my body and my mind, sometimes.
Sometimes it’s simple and sometimes it gets really complicated.
I don’t know what else to call it. All I know is that Kate Bornstein is the closest thing to perfect I can think of respecting.
I’ve read everything Kate has ever published and own most of everything.
Check her out if you don’t already think she’s the best thing since Ben & Jerry’s caramel hat trick icecream! 😀